Write where I’m Supposed to be

This is where healing and writing meet. Writing is my way of coping — of laughing through the face-palm moments, sorting through the messy parts, and finding enough light to keep moving forward. It’s also how I remind myself that I’m right where I’m supposed to be, even when life feels anything but tidy. My hope is that in these words, you might also find a spark of recognition or relief.

"We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect." — Anaïs Nin 

I have often been told that I am relatable. I am not sure if it is my rampant self-deprecation or the fact that I seem to have been born without a filter and routinely say things that cause parents everywhere to widen their eyes and clap their hands over their kids’ ears. It could be my over-the-top theatrics, but not everyone appreciates my flair for the dramatic.

My husband says it is my willingness to start a conversation with almost anyone. And I totally will. He has learned his lesson about wandering off at a party, because when he comes back, he will undoubtedly have to be introduced to several people, which is one of his least favorite activities (right after grocery shopping and sharing his feelings), but he’s a good sport about it all.

I’ve been doing the adult thing long enough to know that when things get hard for me, what I need is connection with someone who can relate with me. Because when I feel connected, I feel inspired and when I feel inspired, I get up and go on my Meri way, ready to fight crime and save kittens. Or relate with somebody who is struggling. Whichever comes first.

Meri’s Always Write is a space for me process the little (and not so little) struggles in my life and try to find the humor in them. It’s an invitation for you to share in some laughs and (hopefully) relate with me. I need an outlet to keep myself sane during this journey and nothing would delight me more than to give you some enjoyment and encouragement. And who knows? Maybe we will save some kittens along the way…

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Complain Jane

I forgot that even when things are hard, things can still be good. I forgot that laughing is medicine and it helps unclench my gut. I took a deep breath, decided to be present, and I stopped complaining.

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The Girl in the Mirror

As I look closer, choosing to see

past the crows feet and finely etched lines

A woman emerges and boldly encourages

Me to step out of my mindh an idea.

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